The journey to college can be a complicated road that is difficult to travel without a reliable road map as your guide. For some, that map is an awesome guidance counselor, a caring teacher, or a parent who has traveled this road before. As a homeschool family, we had some support and guidance from our umbrella school and our support group but getting my boys into college was my responsibility. Summer was a public school junior when she moved in with us and she did not have an awesome guidance counselor at school so, the responsibility of getting her into college was shared between myself and her friend’s mom, who works at the local college.

Thankfully, the Internet was full of information on what we should be doing to prepare my children for college and our umbrella school alerted us to testing opportunities and guided us in our curriculum choices based on our student’s chosen field of study. I am pleased to say all 3 kids have been enrolled at the State College of Florida. Aaron has 1 class left before graduating, he is also taking online courses in audio engineering through Berklee College of Music. Jordan has completed 1 year of college and his education is on hiatus while he is serving on the mission field with The 99. Summer has completed 1 semester of college and is taking this semester off due to finances being tied up in the wedding and her parents not getting the financial aid paperwork filed in time. She will go back to school in January but before she will get her personal finances in order; head to the WECU site for banking guidance and options.

Your #JourneyToCollege Starts Early

Parents and students need to take responsibility for making sure they are doing what needs to be done to get into college. This process starts before you are finished with 8th grade! Choosing your freshman year course load is an important foundation to your high school and college career. Do not rely solely on suggestions from your child’s guidance counselor or school. A wonderful guide map to help you on this journey is the KapMap by Kaplan Kaplan Test Prep. This free downloadable guide outlines steps you need to take beginning in 9th grade to make your college application stand out above the rest.

On top of academics and extra curriculars you also need to make sure social media is kept in check. According to Kaplan Test Prep’s 2013 College Admissions Survey:

• 29% of college admissions officers surveyed say they have Googled and applicant to learn more about them.
• 31% of college admissions officers surveyed say they have visited an applicant’s social media pages to learn more about them.
• 30% of college admissions officers surveyed say they have found something online about an applicant that has negatively impacted their college application.

These numbers are increasing each year. As parents we need to be monitoring our kid’s online activities for both their safety and their future education.

If you have a student in 9th grade or above I highly recommend that you download the KapMap and review it with your student. Make a note in your calendar on the 1st of every month to check the map and see what tasks should be done that month to prepare your child for college. There are 1-2 things each month and they will keep you and your student on the right track to college admissions.

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One of the many helpful sections on their website is the Scholarships section that has tons of scholarships listed by category so that you can check them out and see if your student may be eligible to apply. I also found a great article about my rich uncle which helps match students to available loans.

EduInReview.com also has helpful articles on planning for college, campus life, choosing the right school for you…and your student. There is even a section on Greek organizations, and even how to rush a fraternity or sorority.

If you have a high school junior or senior Edu in Review may be just what you have been looking for.

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This is the first year my son has gone away to school. He gets financial aid and thinks his disbursement check is for just “going out and spending”. At this rate he will be on bread and water til the end of the semester(December) He gets mad when I don’t transfer more funds into his account. How do I get him to see that living expenses do not include weekly all you can eat places and trips to 7-11 or the ABC store for him and his friends?

Thinking back to my own first two years of college, I know this can be a tricky time of freedom and finances. I was not at all prepared for what I encountered out on my own. I was inundated with credit card offers and my parents generously sent me whatever I asked for, neither of which are very good things.

Kids need to learn to manage their money, preferably as soon as they start getting money. Even if you did teach your son money management, it sounds like he needs a refresher. There are many great resources for teaching children money management from ages 3 and up. Both Crown Financial Concepts and Money Savvy Generation have great tools for teaching kids money management. Since your son is older, I highly recommend Good $ense money management class which is offered in local churches by teachers trained through the Willow Creek Association.

Your son needs to get a handle on this now, before it gets worse. Between now and the time he comes home in December I would only send him what he needs. How much does he need per week to pay for incidentals? If you can, put that much on a reloadable debit card every Monday. That way you know his immediate needs are met-he can live 6 weeks on Ramen noodles if he has too…it may help him learn this important lesson.

When he comes home, focus on helping him set up a budget. Your job as parent now it to coach him to make the right choices, you can’t make the choices for him. Help him find books, online tools or a class near his college that will help him learn financial responsibility. Help him also see the difference between wants and needs. Make sure his needs are accounted for in his budget and that there is some allowance for incidentals and entertainment.

Categories in a student’s budget could include: housing, tuition, books, food, clothes, entertainment, incidentals, cell phone and transportation.

Next, draw a line in the sand, the buck literally stops here. You have helped him with his budget, you and his financial aid package are covering his school, books, food and an agreed upon amount for incidentals-his job is to live within his means. This is the hard part for parents but…stand firm.

Training or re-training your son now will help him now and in the future. Do this and then you can send him back to school feeling confident and equipped that he can manage his finances.

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Chicken Soup for the Soul recently published “Extraordinary Teens” which is filled with stories from over 50 amazing teenagers and young adults. Some of them are famous like Brenda Song, Donald Trump, Jr. and Anna Kournikova. Many are names you have never heard of like Desiree Amadeo, Margaret Lewis and Trevor Schulte. Each story is inspiring in its own way and no two stories are the same. There is even the story on page 221 of someone I follow on Twitter @PencilBugs. He is an amazing young entrepreneur who started his business at age 9!

I am thinking about requiring my teenaged sons to read this book. I’m sure it will challenge them to overcome obstacles, think outside of the box and take a stand for what they feel is important.  If you would like a copy of Chicken Soup for the Soul: Extraordinary Teens you can click on the link to order or you can enter to win a copy! I will be giving away 2 copies of Chicken Soup for the Soul: Extraordinary Teens.

Mandatory 1st Entry Leave me a comment telling me about an inspirational teen that you know.

Bonus Entries

• Leave a comment on another (non-giveaway) post on my blog and tell me where you commented. You can do this up to 5 times on 5 different posts.
• Tweet this “@MomMaven is giving away Chicken Soup For the Soul:Extraordinary Teens. You can enter to win it too! http://bit.ly/hsr9g #giveaway” you can do this 3 times a day. Leave the tweet URL in the comment.
• If you haven’t done so already check out the new Purex 3-in-1 Laundry Sheets, and leave me a comment that you did this. This link is trackable so I will know if you really did it or not.

Good Luck! This giveaway is open to US residents only and will end 9/2/09 at 10:15pm.

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We were blessed to have Tony Dungy as head coach of the Buccaneers for several years. He is a great coach and a greater man. The way he blends teaching football with positive character traits is to be applauded. Next week there is a special event specifically for high school football players, parents and coaches, though any student-athlete will benefit, put on by Coach Tony Dungy.
Tony Dungy’s National High School Football Kickoff, “Tony Dungy’s Red Zone ’09” is coming to a theater near you ONLY on Tuesday, August 25, 2009.

Tony will be sharing coaching tips and strategies as well as life and character training. Coach Dungy has assembly some of the best in football to share training tips and drills with the players. What kicker doesn’t want to learn from Adam Vinatieri and what quarterback would say know to tips from Peyton Manning? Definitely not one that wants to improve! Other topics will cover preparing for college recruiting, making sure you are eligible for the NCAA and more.

Tony and host Reggie Dabbs will join with an all-star cast of football’s finest:

• Peyton Manning
• Jon Torine
• Michael Irvin
• Joe Ehrman
• Jim Sorgi
• Joseph Addai
• Gary Brackett
• Adam Vinatieri
• Dallas Clark
• Pete Carroll
• Bob Sanders

For the first time ever, high school football gets its own national kickoff.  As you join more than 1.2 million student athletes taking the football field this fall, it is more important than ever that your sports career gets off to the right start.  With specific training tips from some of the premier players and coaches in the NFL, this event is more than razzle-dazzle. Regardless of your ability level, it will provide new incentive to work hard, eat right, stay focused and develop all of your potential.

from redzonelive.com
For more information, to see where Red Zone ’09 will be showing in your area or to order tickets please visit redzonelive.com. Please share this info with any coaches, parents and/or players you may know.

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When I went away to college I moved in with two girls I had never met before. We had a good size triple room but I did not fit in at all with the other 2 girls. I had an 8am class, they came in most mornings at 3am after partying all night and slept until noon. I thrived at campus activities, mixers and club meetings…they partied. It was not a match made in heaven. Sears has created CampusReady on Facebook a set of apps aimed at getting to know your roomate, decorating your dorm room and going back to school in style.

There are 3 parts to Campus Ready: RoomMate Matchup, Dorm Room Designer and Gift Getter. RoomMate Matchup is a great tool to see how compatible you and your roommate will be. It is a quiz that explores your likes and dislikes. This is a great way to start communicating with the stranger you will be rooming with. Once you get to know each other Dorm Room Designer helps you design your room before you step on campus. Last, but most importantly Gift Getter is a gift registry for decking out your dorm room and going back to school in style. Just will out your wishlist and share it with your friends and relatives and (hopefully) the gifts will start rolling in.

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The first thing I did when visiting the site was to search for a school. The search function is adequate. I typed in the exact name of a school and instead of bringing me to that school’s page it brings you to a list of schools with those words in them. To me that is unnecessary, if you do a specific search you want to go to a specific page. There is a lot of information available to you without registering with the site. Once you locate a school’s page you can see information on the student population, expenses, and academic programs as well as pictures and videos. Unfortunately most of the pictures are logos or Wikipedia graphics so they are very sterile and don’t give you a feel of the campus’ personality.
After you register for your free account you can ask questions in the College Advice section, which is powered by Yahoo Answers. There is also a section where current students can contribute information via Google Friend Connect.

Once you have viewed the information on several schools you can click on the “compare” tool and it will bring up a side by side comparison of 4 schools that you choose. This tool was very helpful to me in weeding out some schools that didn’t meet the demographics I was looking for. The school names didn’t show up in this screen shot but they are from left to right: The University of Tampa, The University of South Florida, The College of the Ozarks and The University of Massachusetts-Amherst.

If you are looking for information on smaller schools and trade schools Campus Explorer is the tool for you. There is information on a lot of schools that are not covered at all on other sites.

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From Unigo-

For years, prospective college students have had to rely solely on costly print guidebooks for
their research. These books offer limited information, are typically written by marketing
professionals, have few photos, no videos, and no interactivity. Launched in September 2008,
the free website Unigo.com is quickly replacing these outmoded resources, with tens of
thousands of interactive reviews of America’s top colleges by the real experts – the students
who attend them.
These reviews were described by The New York Times Magazine as “…so evocative they make
the one-page U.S. News summaries read like junk mail … they are vivid in a way no guidebook
can match,” and The Wall Street Journal’s Walt Mossberg called Unigo “…a college information
resource built for the age of YouTube and Facebook.”
Pre-launch, Unigo’s team of 19 editors spent months researching America’s top 250 colleges,
and networking with tens of thousands of students to give them the opportunity to tell their
stories. They made sure to contact a diverse range of students within each university –
students from every class year, major, ethnicity, religion, political affiliation, sexual orientation,
etc.

After more than 30,000 candid and original reviews, videos, photos, documents and more
poured in, Unigo’s editors viewed and organized all of it, working with students on campus to
ensure accuracy and making all of it available at Unigo.com. At many featured colleges, close to
10% of the student body contributed content.

Since Unigo is a new site and currently only has full profiles of the top 250+ colleges and universities, it has a long way to go. I searched for 6 universities that my son is interested in and none of them are profiled on Unigo at this time. To do my research I finally went to my alma mater The University of South Florida.
Unigo has a very nice review of USF with pictures and videos as well as reviews by students. I was impressed that in the sidebar of the page there are quotes from students that are the “Best things about USF” and the “Worst things about USF”. The content is real and regularly added to by students. Unigo also has a forum section where students can talk with prospective students and answer some of their questions before they ever step on campus.

Unigo is free to join and is a worthwhile place for you and your high school junior or senior to start researching and planning for their college career.

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In talking to my friends I have realized that no one is helping them choose the right college for their child. Even those in public schools with “guidence counselors” aren’t getting the support and information they need to make one of the most important and expensive decisions in their lives so far.

I have been doing some research and I have found some interesting online resources. Over the next few months I will be sharing them with you. I have not received anything from these sites though some of them have asked me to talk about them on my blog.  Some of these sites may see each other as a “competitor” but every family has different needs and different questions about preparing for and choosing a college. I am doing this as a service to you, my readers.

I hope you will find this series of articles helpful and please feel free to share them with your friends via Twitter, Facebook, e-mail, StumbleUpon, Propeller, Digg and any other way you like to share great information.

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