I am the mom of teen boys. I have an awesome, open relationship with my kids and we talk about everything, even the tough stuff. Keeping my kids safe from alcohol is only a minor concern for me personally because they have witnessed the devastating effects it has had on the lives of people close to us and as Christians we abide by the Biblical dictate in Ephesians 5:18 “Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit,” (NIV). But if you think it’s already late for your child, it might be time to search for the best rehab available.
We do not have alcohol in our home and neither my husband or I drink. We have had the alcohol discussion with our boys often, especially now that they are driving too. Drugs have devastating effects too, especially if teens get involved, it is best to recognize the problem before it’s too late and send them to drug rehab tallahassee.
Even though the lines of communication in our house are wide open, they aren’t in all houses and unfortunately a lot of parents don’t talk to their kids about the serious issues. Nearly three out of four kids say their parents are the leading influence on their decisions about drinking, so what does being silent say to your kids? Mothers Against Drunk Driving has programs and activities to prevent underage drinking, starting with the Power of Parents program sponsored by Nationwide Insurance.
To help you get started, they have designated April 21st as PowerTalk 21® day. It’s a day for parents, kids and communities can take positive steps to open communications using the Power of Parents program and work together to end underage drinking. Click on the Power of Parents Link above and download the handbook to help you talk to your teens about under age drinking. Other solutions such as online therapy can also be utilized for situations like this one.
I think it’s very important to have open conversations with kids about things, especially alcohol. I don’t think forbidding it or threatening works, but at least discuss it and share your reasons for either doing it or not should work. Thanks for drawing attention to this day.
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You make a very good point about kids’ making their decisions by what they’re taught…or not taught by their parents. Talking to kids about the rougher truths and making it clear where we stand is so important on so many issues, including alcohol and drug use. I know that my parents feelings on different issues had a huge impact on my choices as a teen. I hope that my boys and I continue to be open with each other in the teen years. I’m adamant about answering their questions honestly now, and hope they continue to come to me when they’re older, knowing that I’ve always been open with them…even when it’s uncomfortable.
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I love that you are modeling the behavior you want to see in your children.
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Great article! i love the way you talk about alcohol to your children. Thanks for sharing the link to us and i will surely download this. And i will recommend this to all of my friends to check you blog site.
Being open and honest about all subjects is important for our children. They’ll learn from us and feel comfortable coming to us when they need help.
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It is great that you have that relationship with your children. It is so important to have it, keep the communication lines open and be ready to forgive them if they mess up. Great job!
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my kids know too many teens who have died in car accidents. more parents like you need to have this conversation.